Garner, 53, and Affleck, 53, are famed for their close-knit co-parenting of their children Violet, 19, Fin, 16, and Samuel, 13, ever since they split a decade ago. Post navigation Ambush in the Capital: Afghan National’s Attack on National Guardsmen Shocks Washington BRYONY GORDON: Paul was handsome and charming… until he slammed my arm in a door, ripped off my necklace and left me covered in bruises. But it was this comment from a friend I confided in that hurt me most